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• 1 month ago
An ex boyfriend lost a job shortly after we started dating and i took it upon myself to try to help him get something
It took monthsRevamped his CV
Worked on his Linkeldn
Was always applying for jobs on his behalfThe more I did this
The more I stopped having any emotional feelings toward himI started seeing him as someone God just wanted me to help
By the time he finally got a job
I started seeing him as a brother not a loverHe would complain to me that I was growing apart from him
But I didn’t know how to be a girlfriend and a helper
I honestly didn’t know how to do itAfter spending 3 months on the job
He passed probation and I ended things quietly with himI didn’t have the mental capacity to be a lover and a helper
This is why I’d rather be with a man that has his shit together
They say problem bring some couples together
I don’t think I am that woman
I will do everything I can to help you
But you will definitely lose me as a partner
People like us that love to help people
We are attracted to people that will water us tooI also want to be watered
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That doesn’t make any sense.