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    Princess Joy

    1 month ago

    An ex boyfriend lost a job shortly after we started dating and i took it upon myself to try to help him get something
    It took months

    Revamped his CV
    Worked on his Linkeldn
    Was always applying for jobs on his behalf

    The more I did this
    The more I stopped having any emotional feelings toward him

    I started seeing him as someone God just wanted me to help

    By the time he finally got a job
    I started seeing him as a brother not a lover

    He would complain to me that I was growing apart from him
    But I didn’t know how to be a girlfriend and a helper
    I honestly didn’t know how to do it

    After spending 3 months on the job
    He passed probation and I ended things quietly with him

    I didn’t have the mental capacity to be a lover and a helper

    This is why I’d rather be with a man that has his shit together

    They say problem bring some couples together

    I don’t think I am that woman

    I will do everything I can to help you

    But you will definitely lose me as a partner

    People like us that love to help people
    We are attracted to people that will water us too

    I also want to be watered

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