#randomthoughts

I was this old when I got to know that pregnancy can also cause heart failures in women and this is not about age or weight or health status before the pregnancy.

Having children in medical field has opened my eyes, ears and mind to alot of things that have jolted me to reality. Marrying a medical doctor did not give me such insights because normally he no go tell me. If I knew what I know now I no go born pass 2 oo true to God. Na ignorance make God pity me wey be motherless baby because pregnancy showed me shege and banza oo. That I did not unalive was a miracle and I did it 4 times plus one miscarriage. Smh

Hearing of young ladies in their mid and late 20s having heart failure because they carried pregnancy is really scary oo. Like heart failure? Reduced quality of life instanta because you gave life to another? You know say when you are pregnant your heart beats for 2 or 3 or even 4, so some people heart dey pack up after oo. It is no joke
Doctors are seeing a whole lot so imagine a young female doctor or health officer having to deal with all that. Seeing ladies close to their age dealing with health conditions because they got pregnant. Ha! God protect my children heart, mind and spirit abeg.
And someone wrote that she has not seen a female gynecologist before. Lmfao
I know we have a lot oo but I also know that’s not the speciality of choice for most of the female doctors too. You no want them to born or have peace? With all they are dealing with you still want them to specialise in knowing every details?
Na OandG posting my Ada tell me say if she born one pikin make I thank God and it might be a paid surrogate. She will prefer to adopt. Jesus take the wheel 🙏. She berated me for going 4 times🤦‍♀️

I no come know again if medical field all of them enter no go cause me extra prayers but it was all God plan and He chose them and have them covered so with that I have peace. When the time reach God will make all beautiful and perfect 👌

With all this some men will open mouth waaaaa and ask what a woman is bringing to the table? The audacity mennnn. Men wey dey get heart failure na majorly because of their excesses and stewpid lifestyles oo. Excessive alcohol and the use of ha^rd drugs. No be because them ejaculated or put their life on the line for humanity.
Women bring a whole lot so humanity can exist and you are asking silly questions? We are the table. The whole table. Why should we bring anything more? You ejaculate and go to sleep and then bring money and so? Money is the least of what is required and we no go hear word? And alot of women now bring money and match your energy too but can you carry pregnancy and push out babies that might weaken your heart? I no wan hear say it is our God given role oo. Then respect it and stfu. We can actually end humanity by refusing to be pregnant 🙄

I came across Omoby post about how intentional men how in choosing spouses. How their gold digging skill is on the upscale and how it is always in their favour and they do not commit without digging for what will better their future and I clap my hands and exclaimed… YES!
Those are the truths that every young woman should know. Marriage favours men more. They will tag women digging for money bad and make it look like they are desperate and use^less but a typical man is digging for a woman’s w0mb, career, babies factory to keep his name going, submission, house keeper, her beauty, her virginity, her intelligence, potentials etc and only money we dem dig dem go don turn am to bad thing? Taaaaa 🙄🙄
Men are the Odogwu gold diggers. Money is transient but the ones they dig is eternal. Do not let them shame you if you can dig. You are giving more. And now some men are digging gold money too oo. Na wealthy women dem dey find.

Anyone who can dig should dig and dig well with your full chest. Ask for that money without shame. Nothing dey happen. Any woman who can afford surrogacy should too. Because you can’t even know if your heart will fail until after the process. Nothing prepares you for the consequences. We that did out of ignorance na God pity us. No woman should be having more than 2 children with all the information at our disposal now abeg. It even avails you with the strength and resources to be there for your kids and improve your quality of life

Happy Sunday ❤️
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