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The word for today is PERFECTION
Perfection is not a destination or a one off act , it is a continuous journey of improvement and refinement
For humans to achieve perfection we ought to have a growth mindset and this requires intentional effort and self awareness and practices that foster continuous learning and development . And to…Read More
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The word for today is KINDNESS
Kindness is the language that the deaf can hear and the blind see
Mark TwainEvery act of kindness is infectious
A good deed speaks volume and build trust
People naturally are endeared to kind personsIn my usual prayer lines I will always say we should be gifted with
– kind children
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The full text of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s speech to the United Nations General Assembly, September 27, 2024, as provided by the Prime Minister’s Office.
“Mr. President, Ladies and gentlemen, I didn’t intend to come here this year. My country is at war, fighting for its life.
But after I heard the lies and slanders leveled at my c…Read More
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Mmmm
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The word for today is PERSEVERE
According to the English dictionary persevere is defined as continuing in a course of action even in the face of difficulty or with little or no indication of success.
It’s no wonder Steve Maraboli in his one of his quotes stated that “ life doesn’t get easier or more forgiving ; We get stronger and more resil…Read More
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The Word for today is EMPATHY
In my own word , empathy is understanding someone from their own perspective and supporting them by working and walking with them through it.
– In life seeing any issue from peoples point of view is an act of empathy
– showing kindness and support is an act of empathy
– recognizing and sharing fee…Read More![]()
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The word for today is FOCUS
Absolute concentration and determination is required for the success of any plan
Be it Business , Parenting , Education , Petty trading , learning skills , self care etcI encourage we Concentrate on our set goals for this is a powerful concept to keep in mind
In maintaining our focus some tips are…Read More
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Thanks for sharing. Very cogent points.
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The word for today is GRATITUDE
One of the most important tools in life is gratitude , having a mindset laced with gratitude is a powerful tool
As a new way of life I implore we shift our daily focus to positivity , fosters resilience, strengthen relationships , encourages self -reflection and most importantly cultivates happiness
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Parenting 101 (No Graduation )
Parenting is a daunting and forever task
And as the years roll by it becomes a two way mechanism structure
Either it is easing out or becoming more tasking and this is due to the outcome of our roles as parents while they were childrenThe above is simply relating the dynamic nature of parenting , where…Read More
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Dear God,let me be alive in wealth, good health of both body and mind to take care of all the children you put in my care in the mighty name of Jesus.
And when the time to celebrate comes,do not let me be missing.![]()
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Amen and Amen
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Amen
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*One of the things that shows that you still need to work on your confidence and build it to optimal level is when you are constantly seeking for validation from people even when you know you have done your very best.*
*It is important that we do our best and follow procedure after which we walk with our head high up.*
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A healthy amount of external validation is needed for your mental well-being, but how much is too much? Internal validation is the ability to honor and acknowledge your positive attributes, strengths, achievements, and emotions. External validation is the acknowledgment of your strengths and emotions from others.
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You are apt Dr ,
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The truth is to build your inner ability and keep building your internal validation
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Dr. The internal validation of oneself is the most important
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The Isoko and Urhobo Culture: A Call to Showcase Our Dignity
As Isoko or Urhobos, we pride ourselves on our rich cultural heritage, built on the foundations of royalty, respect, and elegance. However, it’s disheartening to see our cultural values compromised in our music and performances, especially at social events.
The saying goes, “You…Read More
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Thank you Dr.
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On A Saturday
Do this if you can– Read uplifting quotes from succeful individuals and this will help boost your mood
– Take a walk , embrace nature , take fresh breath
– Create a gratitude journal if you can and pen them down
– Set new goals , no matter how minute they might looks or seems
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Is this not too high? How will parents cope with these outrageous figures with what the country is passing through. They should be slashing this fees to help poor Nigerians
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Ok. Where will poor parents get 386k to pay for a public school. Most of these items were almost free years back. Only school uniform 50k, tuition fee 96k, what for exactly? The average private school don’t pay this much I guess.
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How much did we pay for shola? If they don’t want our children to attend school again make them talk. How much was a university school fees then? Are they now buying and selling?
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Intentional Parenting 101
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EATING OR DRINKING WITH LEFT HAND.
In most aftrican or traditional cultures, eating or drinking with the left hand is a class thing. Its a symbol of accomplishment, prowess and entitlement. So the following persons are entitled to use the left hand to eat or drink:
1. Warrior who has killed predator – lion, tiger or another human in…Read More
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I agree with the traditional understanding of those who should use their left hands. We should now include those whom nature have wired to be lefthanded because they are warriors on their own right.
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The worst thing that can happen to parents is if you disagree in front of your children when disciplining them. You just sowed the seed of rebellion ignorantly.
The WORST one is if you as a spouse is present where your child is misbehaving and you refuse to join your better half in correcting the child because you are having differences. I pity…Read More
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In the journey if parenting the most important and difficult live yo lead is combining the lips with our body actions and thoughts …
Being a doer of what we advocate is not an easy task but it is one aspect of parenting that is very essential …
It simply meants Practice and Act what you preach ….I am a proud parent …
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My tab is bad burnt by power surge while in Abuja so it has really affected my activities , but i hope to bounce back soonest
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Even those that don’t even know who their biological fathers are , are calling for DNA
Until you wear the shoes
You never can tell how it hurtsA friend loss her son on her birthday , two weeks later she opened her business place , and they came for her head …
She was weeping at people’s murmuring , she told me she came to the…Read More
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Our Words For Today
A parent must be this every day
Proactive
deliberate
Determined
DedicatedPROACTIVE
Being proactive is one essential trait of an intentional parent and i will like to add here that we ought to be spontaneous too …DELIBERATE
This clearly define who a parent should be .. intentional ,never in an hurry…Read More![]()
Proactive Deliberate Determined Dedicated
Jite Ellen
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In Parenting it is very noble to walk the talk
Children like we know are very smart and easily susceptible to what they see than what we say
It is not easy but possible …
Lets us all be conscious of what we say and how we act …
We should be the perfect example believing with the special GRACE of God they will align and turn out to…Read More1 Comment -
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There is nothing like accidental greatness …
There must and always will be a process..
There is always a story behind a story …
We all rout for success and accomplishment , we must walk the work ..Parents be intentional about Parenting , so in pursuit of self fulfilnent lets Raise
Bold
Confident and
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Thanks for sharing Jite. Greatness comes from the desire to do extraordinary things—to reach beyond the status quo and relentlessly chase your dreams. It all starts with setting and achieving goals, but when you aim higher than where you set your mark, you force yourself to get better, one victory at a time.
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Excellent rendition madam. Very well-written.